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BBL Energy: How a Curvy Aesthetic Took Over the Internet
BBL energy didn't just take over the feed — it took over the standard. Here's what's actually behind the curve, the culture,…
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BBL Energy: How a Curvy Aesthetic Took Over the Internet
BBL energy didn't just take over the feed — it took over the standard. Here's what's actually behind the curve, the culture,…
Read the full piece →
BBL Energy: How a Curvy Aesthetic Took Over the Internet
BBL energy didn't just take over the feed — it took over the standard. Here's what's actually behind the curve, the culture,…
Read the full piece →
There is a specific kind of client you learn to recognize over time — the one who did the research before she reached out.
Not the browser. Not the person who found your page from someone else’s tag and sent a message twenty minutes later. This is the one who followed quietly for months, watched the work accumulate, made up her mind slowly and then made it decisively. By the time she books, she already knows your style, your process, the way you move through a face. She’s not coming in blind. She came in convinced — and that conviction is something she built herself, over time, without you having to sell her on anything.
That kind of client walks in differently. There’s no warm-up period. No twenty minutes of getting comfortable. She settles into the chair like she already belongs there, which she does, because she chose to be there specifically.
The brief is clean: everyday glam, something that moves with her, nothing that reads like she tried too hard. You do the skin read, ask the questions she answers directly, and from the first product you already know where this is going. The foundation sits beautifully. The skin underneath is cooperating. The client keeps glancing at the mirror in that involuntary way — not checking, just looking, the way people look when something is working and they don’t want to seem too pleased about it yet.
You’re maybe thirty minutes in when the mood shifts into something warmer. The client relaxes in the way clients relax when they’ve stopped monitoring and started trusting. She mentions an event coming up. Then a bigger one. Then — almost like she’s thinking out loud rather than asking — she brings up her wedding.
You keep moving. You tell her what you charge for bridal. It’s a fair number. It reflects the hours, the kit, the trial, the day-of timeline, two years of building a business that makes mornings like this possible.
There’s a pause.
Then: “My cousin does makeup. She only charges half that.”
The brush is still in your hand. The blush is halfway blended. The client isn’t threatening to leave — she said it the way people say things when they’re genuinely thinking through a decision and haven’t noticed they’ve said it out loud yet. No malice. No leverage. Just a number landing on the table between you.
But here’s what’s also in the room, sitting just as quietly: she found you on social media and followed you for months before she booked. She watched the work. She scheduled the appointment. She showed up. And now she’s sitting in your chair — not her cousin’s — which means somewhere between the follow and the booking, she already made a choice. She just hasn’t connected those two things yet.
She just handed you the opening. The question is whether you see it.
She’s been watching your work for months, chose your chair over her cousin’s, and just put a cheaper number on the table without realizing what she handed you. What do you do?